LIFE IS AN INDIVIDUAL RACE.

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As I drove into a fuel station for a refill, The automobile contains a fuel tank capacity of about sixty liters. As the pump attendant filled the tank, a motorcyclist also rode in to
the second pump. Before I knew it, the motorbike was full and the rider rode off whereas my car was still at the pump.
I got there before the motorcyclist however he left before me. It suddenly occurred to me that it would be completely silly of me to assume "I came before him.
How come he's going away before me?"
Why? Our capacity isn't the same.

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The truth is there are times in life when we are stuck at the pump of divinity. people who came in behind us have gone ahead of us; those who learnt from you appear to have outran you; people who graduated years after you are currently those calling the shot and it looks as if you're stuck.
Could it simply be that your capacity is greater than theirs? could it be that your own assignment desires longer preparation?
Could it be that your character is
being fashioned for the task ahead?
Only the One who designed the journey is aware of what is vital.
Why don't you hold on?
People will often say my mates are doing this.....
My mates have done that .....
My mates have this...
My mates are currently....
But i'm still here doing, having, nothing
It is important to understand that you simply spent nine months of formation in your mother's womb alone and you were given birth to alone even if you are a twin.
Therefore never classify anyone as your mate.

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God's dealings with/in your life isn't an estimation of what's happening in the life of your friend or colleagues.
God's dealing in your life is extremely PERSONAL and distinctive and should never be an estimation of physical and tangible things.
Take your gaze off other people's path and focus on your own race.