SOMETHING, PEOPLE WANT TO BE ACKNOWLEDGE, THAT THEIR PROBLEM IS VERY HEAVY

Sometimes, there are some people who face problems in life, they feel comforted, when we give recognition that, their problem is very heavy. And they are offended, when we invite positive thinking. Feeling belittled when we invite them to perception, that their problems are lightweight.

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Sometimes, when faced with a problem, people do not need a solution, they just need to be recognized. When we admit that their problems are very heavy, they may become very confident, and feel very strong. Because only the strong, who are given severe problems. Only the elected, who bear the burden is not light.

But the trouble is, The tendency of people facing life problems, they feel that, the issue of their lives, is the hardest thing in the world. And no one in this world, who has a problem, is heavier or heavier, than they are. So if given input, they can say You do not feel like I am

Occasionally, their handshake, then say, congratulations, your problem is very, very heavy. If they complain about our attitude, say, *you are strange, invited to think that your problem is light, be congratulated that your problem is severe, you refuse. keep on, what do you want?

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